Mutual life and Hardships

My brother seemed to be in love with his wife but not long ago he confessed that he was in doubt whether he was right or now in the choice of his fiancé. She doesn’t want to serve him and cook dinners and breakfasts. In my opinion, it is not the question. The main idea in any marriage, successful or failed, includes all spheres of life – physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. The newlyweds should do all their best to be happy in marriage. It means that they should share joys and hardships and be satisfied with the behavior of one another. My Mom persuaded Nickolas to ask a psychologist for some advice in order to improve their relationships and learn the art of communication. Some people are taking care of food, dwelling, clothing and others but they neglect understanding and helping each other. Helen likes to go in for sports and my brother, on the contrary, hates it – he is fond of fishing. He loves spending hours near the river looking at the water and watching fish under it. It is fantastic to see him putting a worm on a hook and throw out the rod. His eyes are sparkling in the anticipation of catching fish. His friends and he are walking to and fro like children enjoying the activities. The psychologist said that they would be happy if tried to understand each other. Nobody will help (mom, dad or even future children) till Nickolas and Helen begin their approaching to one another. They should be mature in their union. When you are happy in the family, your children will be twice as happy as you are. You will be served if you want it dearly. In my opinion, my brother and his wife would be happy if Helen began studying at college, for example. Nickolas would help her prepare classes spending much more time with his wife.